I think I could be happy getting married on a sail boat.. Somewhere warm. Fly the people who matter someplace for a week or two instead of spending thousands on chicken for hundreds of people you don’t even like. Have fun enjoying each other and partying, no particular day in mind for the wedding. Just have the dress ready and wait for the perfect day. Take off and find a spot that feels right. Then just say the words. I think that would make me happy.